About
the Program
The Maxine Waters
Act of 1984 mandates Child Abuse Prevention Education
for public school children at four points in
their school careers. Since 1985 the Monterey
County Rape Crisis Center has been providing
free classes in all public schools from Moss
Landing to Big Sur. More recently the Catholic
Diocese has been contracting with our agency
so that the private schools can obtain this valuable
information. We have also presented in local
churches, group homes, and summer camps. We typically
reach close to 6,000 students a year and serve
roughly 50 schools in all 4 Northern Monterey
County school districts.
Child abuse prevention classes are typically presented to kindergarten,
3rd, 6th and 10th grade students. Presentations provide information
about child safety and abuse that is age appropriate. Parent previews
are provided before elementary school presentations upon request.
Funding for public schools is provided by grants from local agencies
such as the United Way of Monterey County and the Harden Foundation
and through individual donations. Classes are provided by trained
staff in English and Spanish.
Kindergarten
The Kindergarten program consists of a two day
presentation for 30 minutes each day, using language that is
age appropriate. Children are taught to be careful around people
they don't know well or people with whom they feel uncomfortable.
The three rules they are taught are:
1. Say "No" to conversations,
gifts, invitations to go somewhere or to get in a car with
anyone, unless they have asked their parents or the adult in
charge of them first.
2. Get away, run away from the
situation and sometimes you may need to yell.
3. Always tell an adult you
trust about what happened.
On the second day children are taught about the
difference between safe, unsafe and confusing touches. These
touches are defined as safe touches (hugs,
pats on the back, high fives), unsafe touches (kicks,
bites, pinches) and confusing touches (touches
that may not hurt, but leave a person feeling uncomfortable
or confused).
All students learn the touching rule,
which is ìNobody, regardless if you know them or not
should be touching your private body parts (private parts are
defined as the parts of one's body that are covered by a bathing
suit) unless they are doing it to keep you clean and healthy.
The children brainstorm when it is okay for an adult to touch
childrenís private body parts (i.e. to stay clean or
healthy).
After discussion a short video is shown about a boy who learns
the three safety rules.
Third Grade
The third grade program takes place on one day
for 50-60 minutes. It uses language that is age appropriate.
The class begins with a review of safety rules (answering the phone
or door when home alone, calling 911). Children are instructed
about safety rules if they should be separated from their parents
outside of the home.
The 3 safety rules introduced at the kindergarten level are briefly
repeated at this grade level.
Beginning in the fall of 1999, a new component that teaches children
basic guidelines for using the Internet was added to the curriculum.
This curriculum teaches:
- Do not give out any personal information (name,
address, phone number, name of school).
- Don't post a photo on a personal web page.
- Sign off immediately if anyone uses obscene
language or asks questions that seem weird or make the person
feel uncomfortable.
- Child abuse is introduced as a violation of
respect for a person. Particular attention is paid to respect
for one's body. If inappropriate touching does occur, children
are encouraged to tell an adult they trust immediately.
- Keeping secrets about anything that makes a child feel uncomfortable
is discouraged.
The program concludes with a 20 minute video about a boy who learns
to speak assertively when other people take advantage of him. Afterwards
students have a chance to ask questions or to speak with the presenter
privately.
Sixth Grade
The sixth grade presentation takes place during
one 50 minute class period.
- Safety issues are reviewed with particular attention paid to
Internet Safety rules described above.
- Child abuse is presented as a violation of
respect for a person. The four kinds of abuse are explained: neglect, physical
abuse, emotional or verbal and sexual
abuse.
The most common reasons for abuse are enumerated: drug and alcohol
use, the inability to deal with frustration and anger in a responsible
manner, and being raised in an abusive environment.
Students are encouraged to speak with an adult they trust if they
become aware of anyone who may be abused.
Students learn to be assertive: to stand tall, look a person in
the eye when speaking to him/her and to use a clear audible voice. Assertiveness is
valuable to protect oneself from danger and to deal with harassment
by others.
Students watch a 20 minute video in which children discuss the
effects of abuse on them. After the video, students have a chance
to ask questions and speak with the presenter privately, if they
wish.
High School
The high school program is presented on one day
for approximately 50 minutes. Students are taught to view child
abuse from a social perspective.
- Why in such a wealthy country are so many children neglected?
- What leads parents to hurt their children?
- Why should they be concerned about this issue if it doesn't directly
affect them?
- If they have been affected what can they do about it now?
The four kinds of abuse are reviewed. Particular emphasis is put
on statistics and local cases.
The students watch a 10 minute video in which teenagers discuss
the impact of abuse in their lives. After a discussion and evaluation
of the program, students have an opportunity to speak with the
presenter privately, if they wish.
Parent information is available by calling (831)
373-3955 in Monterey or
(831) 771-0411in Salinas or by e-mailing mcrcc@mbay.net
Parents will receive an overview of the program
their children hear. Handouts that discuss child safety issues
and child abuse prevention can be mailed by request. Parents
also have the opportunity to watch the videos by making arrangements
to come into the office.
For further information,
contact your student's school or call one of our
offices:

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